January 21, 2015

Tis the Season Part 2

This Christmas was particularly special to me because of a couple reasons.

 One, this was the last Christmas that my family was a family of four. Next year, actually this year, we, we will be a family of five. Jett Reynen Catacutan will be added under the tree and cuteness in our photos.

Secondly, this was the first year since 2009 that I was able to spend Christmas day with family. My mom and brother were able to make this trip this year. And hopefully it is not the last.

Christmas morning was spent with just the family, my mom and Mitch. Didn't go as planned since our visitors were still on central time and woke up late. So the present opening and breakfast was a tad delayed. Next time we're going to send the kids up to wake everyone in the house. haha. The kdis had a blast opening presents, and a lot of them, thanks Mitchell.


In the evening time, Eva's family came to join us along with some strays. haha. We had a big dinner, tons of food, took pictures, open more presents, and a little poker. This Christmas was a first for my mother-in-law as well, it's the first Christmas she was able to spend with her family since 2004. she was either in living in New Brunswick or traveled there during the holidays to help out with her brother's restaurant. It was nice that she could spend it with her family, especially with her grandchildren .


Beside mostly everyone being sick during the holidays,  they were exactly needed, time to relax and time spent with family. My kids, especially Teo, really bonded with Mitch this time down. Even after Mitch and my mom went home, which Teo knew, but still asked where his tito was and when we said he's home now, he insisted we facetime with him. It was cute, never seen him like that, but I'm glad to see it. I always had a fear that my kids wouldn't get to know my family as well as Eva's since they lived so far away, but it amazes me every time how affectionate they are with my family. It makes me happy :)

January 2, 2015

Tis the Season Part 1

As per usual, every year the Catacutan's host the Cousin's Christmas party that includes my lovely wife's sisters and cousins. It's a themed party that includes a potluck, gift exchange (secret or dirty Santa), drinks, games, pictures, and a lot of good laughs.

This year we got to welcome the additions of three new people to the party.

First - The star of the party Kayden Everly, the daughter of Rob and Edselyn.

Secondly - the St. Clairs, Kris and Christine. My closest cousin and his wife moved down to southern Ontario in July. It was nice to have them take part in the cousin's Christmas especially since I don't have much family around this area. Not really a surprise that they were able to mesh well with the everyone.

Like every year, the party was a blast. Lots of wine drinking this year, dirty Santa was a lot of fun with some strategizing to obtain a picture, congrats Rob and Ed on successfully pulling that off. Plus I'm happy that my present was actually stolen!  One of the reasons I look forward to this party every year is the fact that it reminds me of the party back home, loaded with fun and laughter. Here's a few pictures from the evening. 



September 21, 2014

Badass Dash



So, a week and a day ago today, I participated in a obstacle filled run called the Badass Dash. For those of you not aware of what this is, below is a brief description copy and pasted directly from their website.

BADASS Dash™

is one of the world’s leading producers of Obstacle Course Challenges & Adventure Races and whose events benefit Autism Speaks, an organization dedicated to funding global biomedical research into the causes, prevention, treatments, and cure for autism; to raising public awareness about autism and its effects on individuals, families, and society; and to bringing hope to all who deal with the hardships of this disorder.

It is the belief of both BADASS Dash™ and Autism Speaks that by working together, we will find the missing pieces of the puzzle. BADASS Dash™ is committed to raising the funds necessary to support these goals as the cause is bigger than the obstacles.


This was the first time doing anything to this extreme in terms of obstacles. I've done a small local run in the past, but it wasn't nearly as big or as challenging. The dash included 40 obstacles and 7 kms of area that you had to conquer. 

I've always wanted to try an obstacle run of this nature in the past. Tough Mudder was another one that I was ask to do but never had the push to do it. Don't know if it's the extreme toughness of obstacles, the length (roughly double of the Dash), or just the travel to get to the event and taking that amount of time away from the family. Not to sure. The Dash was a short 1/2 hr drive, and I originally thought it'll be maybe an 1 1/2 run, therefore it shouldn't be longer then a few hours I'd be gone. For the record, after the wait to sign in for some of my team mates, and lines to start the race and do the obstacles, it took us nearly 5 hours in total at the site. 

When I found out about the Badass Dash, I knew that I would do it this year, whether it was by myself or with other people. Either way I was doing it. I saw this as a way to challenge myself to do things I've never done, give me an extra motivation to exercise, and really, I just saw it as fun. It reminded me of the days when I was a kid. When you were a kid facing any sort of an obstacle run, the first thing you thought about wasn't whether or not you were in shape, you thought about "how fast I could do it?", "can I beat the person next to me," and "this is going to be fun."

After asking a few people and getting shot down on the idea, I started to get frustrated with the comments and reasons for not doing it by some of the people. I can't force anyone to do it, I understand that, just say you don't want to do it or you can't because you physically can't do it because of an injury. That's fine. But what frustrated me was when people would say "I'm out of shape" or "I don't want to go with you because you workout." For one, what type of shape do you think you need to be in? Professional athlete shape? A marathon runner shape? And secondly, you don't want to go with me because... I workout? What does that mean? You don't know what my workout consist of, weights, cardio, HIIT, or all of the above. Or how long my workouts are, which some are only about 15 mins. To all the people who always talk about wanting to be in shape, wouldn't you see this as an opportunity or motivation to start exercising? The way I looked at it was, there are going to be all sorts of people at the Dash. Everyone from young to old, male and female, active and not active, muscular and non-muscular, skinny to obese, etc,. It wasn't going to matter. 

Not everyone reacted that way. I'm glad I wasn't able to find teammates to that were up for the challenge regardless of the shape they were in. It was refreshing to hear people say "Ya, I'll do it" or "I'm in" without any coaxing needed. I'm not pointing any fingers but I know a couple of them probably haven't done anything in relation to exercise all summer... :) 

I was able to recruit four other co-workers/friends. Together we formed Nerd Squad.

Left to right: Serena, Me, Jennifer (Jenni), Chelsey (Bean), Alex (A Rod)

Pre-Badass: 

I have been going to the gym pretty regularly, anywhere from 3-5 times a week. From the time I signed up to the actual day, which was just under a month, I made sure I went 5 days a week and added cardio to my daily routine. I didn't train for a marathon or anything, just added the anywhere from 5 to 15 mins of cardio a day. 

Day of:

Even with the cold and wet weather, and nearly 2 hour wait to sign in, our overall excitement was at a high. We didn't know exactly what we were getting ourselves into but we were anxious to find out. When the countdown began, 5... 4... 3... 2... 1... it was game on.

I found that the obstacles were not too challenging. Each either tested our balance (balance beam), speed and agility (feared float), strength (rope wall, monkey bars) or a combination of the above (Australian back crawl, little ladder wall). The water obstacles weren't overly hard, just made you wet. And on that day, it wasn't near refreshing as it should have been. By far the funnest one was the slip and slide that ended with us sliding through about 30 ft of mud afterwards. It also gave some of us a wedgie, haha. Most of the Dash was constant running, up and down hills and through a series of trails. I think that what killed most of the competitors. For the most part we all stuck together, during the long runs we would split apart but wait at each obstacle for everyone to arrive.

Things I didn't really like about the race were: 
1) the waits at each obstacles. some were quick but others you had to wait a long time where you would reach the group ahead of you or the group behind would reach you. Each wave was roughly 20 mins apart... 
2) the water stations were all out. 2 of the 3 stations didn't have water and the attendants there didn't even know if they were getting any. When we did get water, it was only about 4 oz. With the amount of running we did, there had to be more water.
3) attendant/volunteers were either not present (even when they were present) or not encouraging. Would have been nice to hear a "good job" or "keep going" through out the race by someone other than your teammates. Especially the ones that ran alone. 

After it was all said and done, it felt good to finally cross the finish line. You were greeted with Badass Dash medals that were placed around your neck and post-run refreshment (water, bananas, oranges, crackers) to help fuel your body. I was awesome, except of the fact it was pissing rain. haha.

Here are a few pics from the day.







Post- Badass:

While talking to my family, friends, and co-workers about the experience, I heard people say things like, "It sounds like it was fun", "I want to try it next year" or my favourite, "I wished I signed up with you guys." I guess I am the same way with things I have never tried before. There's always that fear of going to a new place, trying a new experience, and not wanting to look silly. I just let them know how I felt about the Dash, that is wasn't as challenging as I thought, you don't need to be in the greatest shape to do it, and it was fun. In no way am I trying to inspire people to do it, that's not my intention, it was more to say, they should at least try it because I know they'd have fun.  Hopefully, next year we have more recruits to the Nerd Squad.

I am glad that I got to do it and happy that I had others to share the experience with. As I get older, I would like to think that I am able to do what the younger version of me used to. Badass Dash seemed to make me feel young again, something everyone needs once and a while. Until next year...



March 6, 2014

To a special somebody




I would like to wish a happy birthday to a special someone who I've had the pleasure to have in my life for the last 12+ years. As everyday passes, I realize how lucky I was that you approached me at a rez party after you're "love-at-first-sight" occurred just days before. Although everyday doesn't go slow motion like when you first saw me, they are days to treasure nonetheless. 

With each year of growing older, you're experience of being a mother and wife becomes more valuable since the kids and I become more needy :) I hope your day is special. Kya, Teo, Pogi, Tater, and I will continue to show you how much you mean to us and how much we love you. 

Happy Birthday babe. Love you Lots.


March 2, 2014

It's been a while....

Don't know if anyone's been on here checking if I've been updating my blog, if you have, thank you and I promise to do more posting. It's easy to say that it's busy so busy, but really, you can use that excuse for not doing anything in your everyday life.

 It's currently March 2, 2014, and with that being said, I'd like to give a birthday shout out to a few people. Uncle Joen. Albert Huang. Leanne and Brenda.

 And finally my unofficial cousin, Ballzout teammate, and online betting partner, Ant aka tone.

 Time to go, I'll be back soon.

April 1, 2013

Qualtiy Time Together

Nothing says "Family" like doing the Harlem Shake together. I can't beleive it's taken us this long to do one but we finally did it. I apologize for the poor framing tho. Enjoy

December 25, 2012

Oh Christmas Joy

It's been awhile, I know. But it has been a busy year for me and the family so I haven't been able to keep up. I will try to get on more often to post more pics and vids of the family for our family and friends that don't have the chance to see us. These video clips have been waiting for me to put together since 2010. Sorry for the delay. It was the last time we were able to make it to kenora for Christmas. We miss everyone there. Hope everyone has enjoyed their holidays so far. Take care and enjoy. Love, The Catacutan's